I love this. I feel like this often. Making life altering decisions for myself, or for my children, really send me to that edge where I have to force myself to dive over the edge into the great unknown. It is not a good trait to have. It often means that you are over analyzing the problem to the point that it doesn't even resemble the original problem. The shadows worry me. What is in the shadows? Do they mean anything more? I can't see what they could add yet. If at all.